Married 28 years... divorced for 4. I think I'm winning. I moved in with Ray in April. In the house that he and his ex-wife shared before they got divorced. He didn't want to move because he likes the location. I really didn't want to live in 'her' house. So we agreed to renovate. By the time I'm finished with the house even a team of forensic scientists won't be able to find a trace of 'her'. I practically live at Home Depot now. They call me by my first name when I walk in. I'm becoming an expert in DIY home remodeling... but it seems like I have to do each and every project 3 times before I get it right. Funny... Brad Pitt used to be the man of my fantasies. Now... it's Bob Villa. I wonder if Ray dreams of Martha Stewart? I doubt it.